Thursday, March 17, 2011

Praises!

So much to be thankful for!

Wednesday Gratitude

- Praises for the Word of God!  Several in the dentist office were intrigued by the book I had in my hand--Ann Voskamp's.  So powerful, so personal and beautiful.  I'm simply amazed that Ann found the time to create such wonder, while still mothering and teaching her brood of six, and caring for her home and living off the land.  I don't have that many hours in my day! God surely wrote that book through her.  He wanted it written.  I suspect Ann is getting her share of persecution, as is often the case when so powerful a God-themed book hits the bestseller list.  About 2 weeks ago a Google search hit my blog, with the words "Ann Voskamp dangerous".  I found that chilling.  I've no idea why my blog would come up in such a search.  I'm certain I've never used Ann's name along with the word dangerous.  Anyhow, praise God for the impact Ann's words have made.  Everywhere I take that book, people stare.

- Praises that Miss Beth also uses /f/.  I had forgotten until tonight that when we count in the bathtub, she says, "un, two, fe, fo, fi, eigh, te (one, two, three, four, five, eight, ten).  Did you get that?  :)  Thank you for my little girl--so full of life and joy, Dear God!

- The Bronze Bow, by Elizabeth George Speare.  This book has me on the edge of my seat.  It's fabulous! Very action packed, and for the first time I really understand why the disciples and the Jews wanted Jesus to defeat the Roman rule and establish a free Israel.  This book helps you understand--as though you were there--the politics of Jesus' day.  I find this author amazing.

- Praise God that Peter's leadership skills are becoming more mature.  He leads Paul and Mary as they clean the playroom--demonstrating organizational skills as well.  Being paid a little for the job really helps him apply himself.  He keeps coming up with better ways to organize their things, so that clean up is faster.  And no more shoddy work, such as things crammed in the corners.  He really cares.

- I still have to sit with Peter while he does math with the new program, Teaching Textbooks.  However, I don't have to prepare anything.  Praise God that something has gotten easier!  I just observe and have him stop when he needs more explanation.  I take out paper and pencil and manipulatives, if necessary, and teach a little here and there. Paul does it independently and loves it.

- Praise God for preschool songs and rhymes.  Miss Beth loves any song or rhyme that involves hand motions.  She gets so involved and is just as happy as a lark when we're doing the motions together.  Thank you, Father, for her exuberance!  She doesn't have much patience for playing on the floor, which, come to think of it, is probably why we haven't done it much in the past.  She is still so active, flitting here and there, just exploring and enjoying life.  She can say more than she lets on.  For example, today we were playing with the Barney stuffed animal, and I noticed she said "Bar" instead of "Bar-ney".  I clapped the syllables and was able to get her to add the second syllable.  Could she just be lazy, verbally speaking?  No incentive?  I need to require more of her, while still being cheerful and light about it.

- Praise God for new perspective on my sons.  Paul is very bright and struggles with pride; everything is very easy for him, compared to his siblings.  I noticed that he gloats a lot, though very subtlely, about having better scores on spelling, etc., than Peter.  They use the same materials.  I took Paul aside and explained that we must give God the glory for everything--even our spelling--rather than taking that glory for ourselves.  Every single thing is a gift.  He took this hard, as he does any correction.  I really appreciate the contrast this week, in ways I couldn't before.  Those given much struggle with pride--thinking they've made themselves.  Those with nothing remarkable, in terms of talents, cling to God out of necessity. Who has the better hand in life? The one who is first or the one who is last?  I have both in this house.  The one side has more earthly comfort, the other more passionate faith.  How can those who rarely fail, like my Paul, not believe in themselves so strongly?  The temptation to do so is great.  I see my mission as Paul's mother more clearly now.  He needs me to be proud of him, yes, but at the same time, I need to set his gaze toward his Gifter, and encourage a humble heart of thanksgiving.

- Peter said while they were cleaning their playroom, "Praise God that we have so many toys.  Others have none!"  I said that I loved his attitude of gratitude!  He was very happy to hear me say this, after hearing plenty from me about his complaining ways.  Has a seed been planted?  May it sprout and flourish, Dear God!

- My husband's steadfast love

- My Mary suddenly getting all the words exactly right for every song we've ever sung together.  She belts them out now, whereas even last fall she left out words, phrases, and lines, from various songs.  She reminds me more and more of a sweet little kindergärtner, with her precious paintings, her rhymes, her songs, her letter sounds.  It's so fun!

- Giggling at the dinner table with my four kids, over a squirrel's frantic antics and amazing tail talk.

- More fun at the dinner table tonight.  I identified a bird for Paul--a mourning dove, far away in a neighbour's tree.

Mary says, incredulous, "You know what a mourning dove looks like?"

Daddy is usually the walking bird book around here, not Mommy.  Although, being married to my husband has made a bird lover out of me.  I can identify my fair share now.

I said to Mary, in a kidding voice "Why, yes!  Can you even believe how smart I am?  It's amazing the things that come out of my mouth, isn't it?" I'm no comedian, but Paul laughed hard at this, shooting his milk across the table.  Fun times, minus the mess!

Happy St. Patrick's Day!

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

kids bowl free / your area

This message came through my homeschool group.  Sounds great.  Check the website for a bowling alley near you!




Hi All!
 
The Kids Bowl Free program is now accepting registrations for the summer at www.kidsbowlfree.com  Visit the site for a listing of participating centers and their individual program dates.  This will be our second year participating, and it is a great summer program.
 
Just to give you an example, from May 1 - Sept. 3, each child in our family age 15 and under may bowl two free games each time we visit, as often as every day!  We are also offered an unlimited shoe rental card with the program that gets the kids their bowling shoes each visit for only $15 for the entire summer.  So for a total of $45 we have unlimited bowling all summer for three kids.  


There is also an unlimited family pass available for $24.95 that allows all children over 15 yrs and adults in the family to bowl as well.  Shoe rental is extra.  But the $24.95 is a one time charge to cover up to four older children and/or adults in the household.
 
Any additional questions can be answered at the website, if you are interested in this deal.

 
Happy Bowling!
 
Leigh
 

Thrifting fun

During my thrift store trip the other day, I also worked on Mary's spring and summer wardrobe.  Peter scored a couple pairs of jeans, but I couldn't find anything new looking for Paul.  I knew he'd be downcast, so I was delighted to find a fabulous Little Tykes truck perfect for hauling things.  They've been pretending to be farmers and truck drivers, taking farm products from the farm to the factory to the grocery stores.

Daddy needed nice t-shirts for work and I found four brand-new ones, including one featuring a sports team from our area.  Unfortunately, on the back of the shirt, it featured the name of a player who went to play for the Miami Heat, which upset the fans here, who apparently expect absolute loyalty.  The man is hated here, which is probably why the shirt was given to Goodwill, still brand new.  :)  When my husband saw the back of the shirt with the name James, he said he would get a lot of heat from the men at work.  He's tough though--he can take it.  He also wore the sports shirt I bought that said, "Property of Jesus."   



















Here are the girls, fresh out of the bath and ready for night church, with their new dresses.




 My silly Paul, being a ham.


Paul and Peter also scored this neat book that teaches kids all about using compasses.

























Tuesday, March 15, 2011

speech timetables and larger life lessons

Thanks to a very sweet speech teacher I've met through this blog (thanks Connie!), I was able to assess where Beth is at in terms of consonant mastery.  She is within normal range, but only because normal range is so wide.  Each child is hardwired to learn language at a certain time, given normal stimulation and a lack of hearing difficulties or other handicaps.

Here is a chart that outlines which sounds should be mastered by what age:

speech sounds

I've listened carefully over the last twenty-four hours and found that she has all these sounds in the initial position:

p, m, b, n, k, g, d, t (still lacking /h/ and /w/)

And yet still, I can't understand much of what she's saying.  She only uses first syllables.

I'm praying about whether to spend the $40 on the Teachmetotalk DVD. Based upon advice from Connie, I've succeeded in encouraging Beth to add some second syllables (just today).

I know how to fill them with language (receptive), but drawing it out (expressive) is harder for me.

Just thought I'd bring you along with me in the process, in case someone out there is dealing with the same issue.

I remember watching Beth walk across a relative's grass when she was just nine months old.  A family party was going on.  Everyone thought the early walking feat was amazing.  I'm sure my cousin-in-law, who had a baby around the same time, wondered why her baby was just learning to sit up.

I kept my mouth shut, not gloating.  I knew that come talking time, my baby would be lacking, and their daughter would probably be flourishing.  They would think--human nature is like that--that I was probably doing something wrong.

Every baby and every family is different, and comparing is never wise.  Nor is gloating.

Their baby ended up walking at eighteen months, just like my cousin--the baby's father--had done.

God plans our paths.  All we can do is educate ourselves and do our best--learning humility in the process.

My part, right now, is to get on the floor and play!  My little one is awake.

Wish me giggles?



Monday, March 14, 2011

for the joyful and the hard

Attempting to meet the needs of all four children, and then later, my husband's needs, overwhelms on some days. Time to give thanks for the joyful moments, along with some hard hallelujahs for the problems.

Monday Gratitude:

- Mary's fun fixation on rhyming words

- Beth's smile

- Beth's joy at being outside

- Brothers playing ball

- Birds flying high overhead in perfectly straight lines, equal distances apart.  Amazing.

- Hospital pictures of a friend's new baby

- Brothers waiting restlessly for the UPS man to deliver their new math program

- Brothers doing math excitedly at 6:30 PM, because the UPS man came at 6:00 PM.

- Noisy din of four children playing hard while Momma cooked

- Boys folding pajamas

- Kids cleaning their playroom cooperatively

- A hard hallelujah for the ADHD son who chews his shirts constantly, ruining them.  God will provide.

- A hard hallelujah for the speech articulation issues in my two-year-old. How will I find the time to get on the floor and play with toys an hour a day, to draw out more words and consonant sounds?  I know that is what's necessary, and it overwhelms me.  I don't play well.  I can read, sing, and dance, give bountiful love, but I don't play, in the traditional sense. Here is some help for me, and maybe you out there?   I'm going to order one of these DVD's to teach me how to draw language out, though play, thereby delighting my toddler and keeping her out of speech therapy.  As she adds longer sentences, it becomes more clear that we have a problem, Houston. We can't understand her!  Therapy would present a problem, since I have no second vehicle.  And I'm too frightened to send my two-year-old on a bus, which is the speech practice in this district for two-year-olds.  With the Lord on my side, I will learn to do this, in my home, and I will love it.  And Miss Beth will thrive.

- A hard hallelujah for my husband's work and personal frustrations.  After a full day and evening of kid issues and homekeeping, I'm out of steam, and that just doesn't work.  Teach me to be gentle and quiet, pouring forth grace--meeting the needs of those around me.

- A hard hallelujah for a nervous disposition, which makes it harder to meet the needs you've presented me with.

- Praises that our family dynamics are a perfect depiction of the Gospel--never good enough, never quite getting there, sorrow over failures, exhausted by attempts at mastery.  Ultimately, needing to fall at your feet and lay down my life, my timetable, my desires, my comforts, for your divine plan.

Dwelling on all these verses this week:

James 1:2-18 (source found here)


Trials and Temptations
 2 Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters,[a] whenever you face trials of many kinds, 3 because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. 4 Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. 5 If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you. 6 But when you ask, you must believe and not doubt, because the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind. 7 That person should not expect to receive anything from the Lord. 8 Such a person is double-minded and unstable in all they do. 9 Believers in humble circumstances ought to take pride in their high position. 10 But the rich should take pride in their humiliation—since they will pass away like a wild flower. 11 For the sun rises with scorching heat and withers the plant; its blossom falls and its beauty is destroyed. In the same way, the rich will fade away even while they go about their business.
 12 Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love him.
 13 When tempted, no one should say, “God is tempting me.” For God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does he tempt anyone; 14 but each person is tempted when they are dragged away by their own evil desire and enticed. 15 Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.
 16 Don’t be deceived, my dear brothers and sisters. 17 Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. 18 He chose to give us birth through the word of truth, that we might be a kind of firstfruits of all he created.