Wednesday, October 12, 2011

Fall Leafs Me Happy

Let me know if you read the Gospels with us. I have some Thanksgiving books to give away today. 

We're not done with John yet. Tomorrow I'll have the new homework.


I try to like summer but....well, I just don't. The swimming, the fireflies, the popsicles, the ice cream...my kids love it all. Daddy, too.

I love their exuberance about summer, and so in that regard I've made peace with my least favorite season. Although, this last summer the usual weather pattern went haywire. None of us liked the new menu.

The September rain behind us (that wasn't usual either), it's now beautiful. It's my time. I'm in love with the color, the temperatures, the food, the activities.

Even when I'm very old, I'll venture to a farm to pick apples and pumpkins in October. No matter my condition. It's that special to me. Fall makes me feel all warm and happy inside and missing even a minute of the fun just won't do.

I think I'll bake apple or pumpkin pie every day for the rest of October. (With frozen pie crust most of the time, probably).

Peter also loves fall and he's going to ask for a pie every. single. day. I know that boy. Yesterday we made crumb apple (rich in cinnamon, my favorite) and today he pined for pumpkin. He's my partner in fall crime.

Bless his leaf-lovin' soul.

What do you love about fall?

We had an eighty + degree day for our fall outing. Not exactly cozy, but hey, it hasn't rained for several days now. And the sky? A rare thing of beauty for Ohioans. All blue and magnificent.
















The following poems and notes were found here.

October's Bright Blue Weather 

by Helen Hunt Jackson
O sun and skies and clouds of June
And flowers of June together,
Ye cannot rival for one hour
October's bright blue weather;

When loud the bumblebee makes haste,
Belated, thriftless vagrant,
And goldenrod is dying fast,
And lanes with grapes are fragrant;

When gentians roll their fringes tight,
To save them for the morning,
And chestnuts fall from satin burs
Without a sound of warning;

When on the ground red apples lie
In piles like jewels shining,
And redder still on old stone walls
Are leaves of woodbine twining;

When all the lovely wayside things
Their white-winged seeds are sowing,
And in the fields, still green and fair,
Late aftermaths are growing;

When springs run low, and on the brooks
In idle, golden freighting,
Bright leaves sink noiseless in the hush
Of woods, for winter waiting;

When comrades seek sweet country haunt
By twos and twos together,
And count like misers hour by hour
October's bright blue weather.

O sun and skies and flowers of June,
Count all your boasts together,
Love loveth best of all the year
October's bright blue weather.

Biography

Helen Hunt Jackson (1831-1885) was an American poet and novelist. She was born in Amherst, Massachusetts, where her father was a professor in Amherst College, but she spent much of her life in California. She married a banker in Colorado Springs, Colorado, where she lived for a few years. Her poems are very beautiful, and "September" and "October's Bright Blue Weather" are especially good pictures of these autumn months.

The Huskers

by John Greenleaf Whittier
It was late in mild October, and the long autumnal rain
Had left the summer harvest-fields all green with grass again;
The first sharp frosts had fallen, leaving all the woodlands gay
With the hues of summer's rainbow or the meadow flowers of May.

Through a thin, dry mist, that morning, the sun rose broad and red;
At first a rayless disk of fire, he brightened as he sped;
Yet even his noontide glory fell chastened and subdued
On the cornfields and the orchards and softly pictured wood.

And all that quiet afternoon, slow sloping to the night,
He wove with golden shuttle the haze with yellow light;
Slanting through the tented beeches, he glorified the hill;
And, beneath it, pond and meadow lay brighter, greener still.

And shouting boys in woodland haunts caught glimpses of that sky,
Flecked by the many-tinted leaves, and laughed, they knew not why;
And schoolgirls, gay with aster-flowers, beside the meadow brooks,
Mingled the glow of autumn with the sunshine of sweet looks.

From spire and barn looked westerly the patient weathercocks;
But even the birches on the hill stood motionless as rocks.
No sound was in the woodlands save the squirrel's dropping shell,
And the yellow leaves among the boughs, low rustling as they fell.

The summer grains were harvested; the stubble-fields lay dry,
Where June winds rolled, in light and shade, the pale green waves of rye;
But still, on gentle hill-slopes, in valleys fringed with wood,
ungathered, bleaching in the sun, the heavy corn crop stood.

Bent low by autumn's wind and rain, through husks that, dry and sear,
Unfolded from their ripened charge, shone out the yellow ear;
Beneath, the turnip lay concealed in many a verdant fold,
And glistened in the slanting light the pumpkin's sphere of gold.

There wrought the busy harvester, and many a creaking wain
Bore slowly to the long barn-floor its load of husk and grain;
Till broad and red, as when he rose, the sun sank down at last,
And like a merry guest's farewell the day in brightness passed.


And lo! as through the western pines, on meadow, stream, and pond, 
Flamed the red radiance of a sky set all afire beyond, 
Slowly o'er the eastern sea-bluffs a milder glory shone, 
And the sunset and the moonrise were mingled into one!

As thus into the quiet night the twilight lapsed away,
And deeper in the brightening moon the tranquil shadows lay,
From many a brown old farmhouse and hamlet without name,
Their milking and their home-tasks done, the merry huskers came.

Swung o'er the heaped-up harvest, from pitchforks in the mow,
Shone dimly down the lanterns on the pleasant scene below,
The glowing pile of husks behind, the golden ears before,
And laughing eyes and busy hands and brown cheeks glimmering o'er.

Half hidden in a quiet nook, serene of look and heart,
Talking their old times over, the old men sat apart;
While up and down the unhusked pile, or nestling in its shade,
At hide-and-seek, with laugh and shout, the happy children played.

Urged by the good host's daughter, a maiden young and fair,
Lifting to light her sweet blue eyes and pride of soft brown hair,
The master of the village school, sleek of hair and smooth of tongue,
To the quaint tune of some old psalm, a husking-ballad sung.


About the Author
JOHN GREENLEAF WHITTIER
John Greenleaf Whittier (1807-1892) was born near the town of Haverhill, Massachusetts, not far from Hawthorne's birthplace. He had very little opportunity for education beyond what the district school afforded, for his parents were too poor to send him away to school. His two years' attendance at Haverhill Academy was paid for by his own work at making ladies' slippers for twenty-five cents a pair. He began writing verses almost as soon as he learned to write at all, but his father discouraged this ambition as frivolous, saying it would never give him bread. His family were Quakers, sturdy of stature as of character. He is called "The Quaker Poet."

Whittier led the life of a New England farm boy, used to hard work and few pleasures. His library consisted of practically one book, the family Bible. Later, a copy of Burns's poems was loaned to him by the district schoolmaster. Like Burns he had great sympathy with the humble and the poor. In his poems. Whittier described the scenes and told the legends of his own locality. Home Ballads and Songs of Labor, in which "The Huskers" and "The Corn-Song" appear, are among his most widely read books. They picture country life and the scenes of the simple occupations common in his part of the country. Whittier was intensely patriotic and religious by nature. His happiness lay in his association with his friends, with children, animals, and the outdoor world.

In these respects he was like Bryant, a man who found pleasure in simple things. Like Bryant, also, he was interested in public affairs. Any injustice to the poor he opposed passionately. He wrote many poems in protest against slavery. He wrote, also, ballads of early New England history, and some of our most beautiful religious poetry comes from his pen. His life was less filled with business cares than that of Bryant, but it was equally full of interests that made him happy and source of help and joy to others.

Monday, October 10, 2011

Author's Corner, David Martin

All for Pie, Pie for All by David Martin: Book Cover

All for Pie Pie for All, by David Martin

Oh my, folks. Every time I check out this book I'm so tickled by it. Have I blogged it before? I don't think so?

I've been holding out on you book lovers then.

Grandma Cat makes an apple pie, and after Little Brother Cat, Big Sister Cat, Momma Cat, Poppa Cat and Grandma Cat eat a piece, there is one slice left over.  Guess who gets that slice?  And guess who they share it with?

You'll have to read it yourself to discover the delightful, heartwarming details. What a pleasure!  My kids have a smile on their faces the whole read. Yes, even my big boys......including Daddy.

Other books by David Martin, a former teacher, are pictured below. Still more can be found on his official website (includes his biography).







Sunday, October 9, 2011

This Moment....A Letter to Mommies

My Peter, always having some scheme in his fast-paced mind, taped a notice to the kitchen wall (shown below). Amusing doesn't begin to cover this precious childhood keepsake. 


Earlier, perusing the bookshelf which I'd newly rearranged, he found a Creepy Crawlies thematic unit I used in my teaching days. 


The wheels of that mind began spinning. 


No, he wasn't interested in me teaching it to him. Rather, he saw it as a teaching opportunity for him. Mommy, Mary, Beth and Paul were to be his pupils, along with his homeschooling friend and fellow bug enthusiastic, Elizabeth, if we could swing it. (Turns out she broke her foot).


Remember, he is my challenged speller. The same words that are incorrect here are correct somewhere else in his samples. His mind is always on content, rarely on mechanics. 


Ther is to be held a bug cllas in the dinning room at 9:30 AM. We pray you will come.


He prepared, people. Like a determined, dedicated professor. 


He went through the book painstakingly, deciding what had merit. He kept all his materials on a clipboard and carefully copied any pages he needed for his students. 


I marveled, observed from afar, and then marveled some more. But no, this boy doesn't want to be a teacher or anything. Farming is the life for him, complete with many kids around to help him and delight him. That boy's been looking at Ann's blog, you know.


Did I ever tell you playing school was my favorite thing to do as a child? Many a time I coerced my sister and my mom and any neighbor kids, when they were around (we moved a lot.....military family), into attending my classes.


Anyhow, for Peter's bug class, we were to identify insects by their body parts, sequence six picture frames showing a spider making its orb web, and for the hands-on, he went outside and cleaned out an old aquarium and dressed it up with branches and leaves. He found six live insect samples and put them in the aquarium for us to observe and then write about. He copied graph paper for us to graph our favorite bugs.


And his execution? To die for.


"Welcome to my bug class, students! Thank you for coming. How are you doing today? What are you enjoying about fall?........Well, today we will be learning about the body parts of an insect. Does someone know how many legs an insect has?"

Here is my letter to my mommy self, taped to my brain.

Welcome to the best years of your life. Treasure every notice child-taped to your wall by your amazing-brained, tender-hearted, hyperactive Peter.  
Treasure every paint mess, complete with wildly beautiful painted butterflies, courtesy of Mary, that keep you from hanging that twice-fluffed laundry. 
Treasure every inconvenient time your toddler asks to nurse because you've been crazy-busy and nursing is how she slows you down and claims your adoring eyes.
Treasure every muddied pair of jeans your Paul comes in with, fresh from playing an exuberant game of backyard football, featuring himself as offense, defense, and announcer.
Treasure, treasure, treasure. So you can remember.
Because someday your house will be clean, dusted, organized. Fingerprints will no longer soil your walls. Butterflies, painted, drawn or cut out, will no longer color your world in spring and summer and fall. You won't run out of milk every two days. There won't be a pile of muddy shoes littering your entryway.
Headache-inducing noise won't follow you around. 
It will be quiet. And empty. 
Yes, your Bible can be devoured in peace. Books, too. And prayer time can last two hours, if desired. You might even sleep through the night.
But the best years of your life will be gone. Forever.
Claim this moment as sacred. Relax in it and give thanks.

Friday, October 7, 2011

Views on Homeschooling....Annoying Ones



A little soapbox. Sorry.


We had company here for lunch today, including one guest whom I hadn't seen in 14 years. Today's lunch was her second meeting with us in a week. Knowing Beth's diagnosis and observing Peter's neurological problems, she suggested I send Paul and Mary to school and just homeschool Peter, since that would be easier on me.


I knew to tread carefully because this guest, though a loyal churchgoer all her life, happens not to be an evangelical Christian. She believes that people are mostly decent and good, and as long as they don't do anything terrible, they'll be going to heaven.


Not wanting to hide my belief system, I briefly mentioned that I homeschool, in part, to ensure that my children develop their own faith in God, and that this faith grows and deepens, unfestered by worldly distractions.


She responded that if I raise them right, they will come back to what is right, even if they take a vacation from it. The Lord will always draw them back, she said. It is all up to Him. She added that homeschooled kids are probably just are vulnerable as others in terms of walking away from faith. (Statistics strongly refute this notion.)


It's important for children to be around other children, because so much of life requires interaction, she reminded me.


I said that my children interact with other children of various ages at least twice a week.....AWANA on Wednesdays, homeschool gym/fellowship on alternate Tuesdays, church on Sundays, playdates, and various homeschool events and library events sprinkled throughout the year. 


I did not mention that my children also go everywhere with me, interacting with and watching me interact with, librarians, nurses, doctors, barbers, grocery workers, postal workers, and various business owners. Relating comfortably and respectfully with adults is important as well, yes?


I smoothly changed the subject by working on the mashed potatoes with her.


Homeschooling parents receive this feedback all the time. It's important to be patient and understanding of the different perspective, and not to be opinionated in return, but this same scenario over and over can be annoying, I must confess. 


I think all people need to have a social circle, since God created us to need fellowship. It relieves stress, makes us feel loved and supported, takes our mind off of ourselves, and it's just plain fun, usually. 


But, I completely disagree with the notion that without traditional school, a child is at a disadvantage socially. Parents and family teach interpersonal skills. Children haven't the capacity to teach healthy social skills to each other.  


Yes, children can learn by trial and error how to fit into a certain acceptable mold, but fitting in isn't a social skill, and it isn't a Christian concept. Christ is the only "person" children need to seek approval from (to honor), aside from their own parents.


Jesus has a lot to say about how to relate to others, and His teachings are learned and reinforced in the home. They are hard teachings....most unnatural to the human condition.


I also disagree with the notion that a parent should choose the route that's easiest, just because it's easiest. I should send Mary and Paul to school because it would be easier on me? What excellent thing in life is easy? Every challenging thing God sends my way makes me stronger in Him. I need to have open arms. My spiritual growth depends on it.


These children are a gift from God. They aren't a right, but a privilege. I want to express my gratitude by honoring Him in my parenting, even when it's hard.


Our goal as parents is not to send our kids out to conquer the world with their stellar interpersonal skills, earning promotion after promotion in the process. Our goal is to send them out as world changers...as messengers of Christ's love and forgiveness. That's counter-cultural parenting.


Though my guest, 76 years old now, raised six kids and took them all to church, none ever developed any spiritual interest. None. But yes, they are decent people. Very nice people.


I want to raise very nice people, yes. But even more, I want to raise messengers.


Homeschooling is only one way I can honor God in my parenting. There are many ways; homeschooling certainly isn't for everyone. It doesn't matter to me what method of schooling a family chooses. 


Just don't say that my choice puts my kids at a disadvantage socially, and don't suggest I change my mind just to make things easier on me.


Both are ridiculous. 

Thursday, October 6, 2011

overheard



Yesterday Mary said she wanted to be a train driver someday.  I said that sounded wonderful, and was she also looking forward to being a mommy?


MARY:  I don't think I can be a mommy because I don't know how to babysit.


Then today I was washing her hair and we somehow started talking about babies.


MARY:  How many babies do you think I'll have, Mommy?


MOM:  It's up to God how many you have, Sweetheart.


MARY:  But what if I only have two babies? (Uttered with a whine)


MOM:  Oh, I think you'll have more than that.


MARY:  Then why did you only have one baby, Mommy? (She's speaking of Beth here, who is still a baby in Mary's eyes.)


MOM (chuckling):  I had four babies, Mary..........Beth, Mary, Paul and Peter. You're all bigger now, but you were tiny babies at one time.


MARY (looking shocked and thoughtful): We were?